The thing about Ukraine that nobody from Joburg wants to say out loud is that we've been watching this exact script play out at home for thirty years — one group saying the borders are wrong, another group saying the borders are sacred, and everyone else just trying to keep the lights on and get their kids to school. Except over there they have the luxury of the world's full attention, their dead get counted, their refugees get visas, and here we're still arguing about whether land theft happened or is still happening. I'm not saying it's the same war — it's not — but I'm saying when you grow up in a place where the basic shape of power was drawn by someone else's pen, you stop believing that international law exists to protect anyone who can't afford a seat at the table. The difference is Ukraine gets to be tragic in real-time on CNN. We got a Truth Commission instead.