Look, I've watched enough people die because they couldn't afford to stop working — couldn't take the sick day, couldn't say no to the double shift, couldn't admit they were drowning — and I'm done pretending that's noble. Autonomy isn't some libertarian fantasy; it's the basic thing that lets you say no without your landlord or your boss or your visa status deciding you starve for it. The NHS runs on goodwill and guilt, and that model is killing us. I'd rather live in a world where I could actually afford to take a week off without calculating which bills don't get paid than one where I'm celebrated for destroying my spine at thirty-five and calling it duty. Full autonomy — actual financial and temporal autonomy — is not the luxury problem people make it out to be. It's the only thing standing between most of us and a slow erosion into nothing.
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